Children should come in pairs b/c you need your sibling to lean on when a parent is sick or dying. No one else can honestly understand what you're going through besides your brother or sister.
Moving on...
I'm 4 years older than my brother and have always seen him as a baby. I give him advice on school, careers, girls -- you name it, even when it is not solicited. In respect to my brother, I consider myself a fountain of knowledge. Today I had no advice to give.
BD*: What do we do about dad?
Me: I dunno.
BD: You need to know.
Me: I have to no idea how to wrap my mind around this.
BD: You're my older sister, I need you for emotional support.
Me: I need dad.
For the first time, we're equals. We're both equally lost on how to deal with the possibility of loss of this magnitude.
*BD = Bengali Dude
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i'm sorry either one of you has to go through this:/
...i can't even begin to imagine going through smth like this...may god bless you and your family...
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My heart pours out to you. If there was a magic word that I could tell you to make it easier, I would. Take it step by step, day by day, and breath. You and your brother will grow stronger than ever from this; you must be a team and be each others support. You are in my heart.
I don't know what I would do if I were in your sich....and to think, my brother doesn't talk to me unless he HAS to...and he's supposed to be the older more mature one. ugh.
You and your family are in my thoughts....and prayers!
I'm sorry that last month's good health report didn't last longer, BC.
Stay strong. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. God bless you all.
Your family is in my prayers. May God give you and your family the strength that He can only give you.
It's too overwhelming to deal with. I don't think there's any way to prepare. *hugs*
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I'm here for you.
I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. May your father have good health. Wishing you all goodness and strength throughout these days of uncertainty.
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