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Dear Grandmother:

I find you to be a f*cking cunt. I hope there is a special place in hell for a b*tch like you. You never deserved to have children. Here are the a few of the reasons you are a vile creature:

  1. Your eldest son called you on Monday night and cried to you on the phone because he is sick and asked you to come visit him and you said, "well I guess I'll pray for you" and hung up the phone. He raised your entire family, you ungrateful as*hole.
  2. You know very well that your son cries out for you in his hospital bed and you don't give a sh*t.
  3. You make pathetic excuses to our family in Connecticut such as "I'm so scared to fly to California." Really you stupid b*tch? You fly to India every few months on your own and travel by yourself with no worry. You only care about yourself.

My cousin called me today to tell me that he would try to convince you to visit. Why the f*ck should someone have to convince you to visit your sick and dying son, you stupid whore? Don't bother to come visit us. You are not my family and you never will be. If my father dies, and you dare show your face at his funeral, I will drag you by your hair in front of the entire family and throw you out of the Church.

I have no forgiveness in my heart when it comes to you. I hope you die alone you f*cking b*tch.

With Little Regard,
Bengalic Chick & Bengali Dude

Posted by Oni on Sunday, February 11, 2007 at February 11, 2007 |

why does your grandmother not want to visit your father?

Posted by Anonymous Anonymous | February 11, 2007 at 7:37 PM  

Anon, I think she is a horrible person. There has never been a fight between her and my dad. She lived in our house, my dad always provided for her. She is just a bad person. For example, she beat my mom and every daughter-in-law that was left in her care.

I don't understand how she can be so heartless.

Posted by Anonymous Bengali Chick | February 11, 2007 at 7:59 PM  

What goes around comes around! That's all that needs to be said.

Posted by Anonymous Roonie | February 11, 2007 at 10:04 PM  

wow, she sounds horrific. i don't get people like that. where they don't find love in their (fe/male) hearts to care for their children. it's appalling. particularly in cases like this where your father is ill.

my thoughts are with you and your family.

Posted by Anonymous Chai | February 12, 2007 at 7:59 AM  

I'm sorry...this just adds to all the stuff that you are already dealing with!
You can share my granparents with me, okay?

I hope your visit with the parents was good, I know you needed it!

Posted by Anonymous ~Little Bull~ | February 12, 2007 at 8:28 AM  

Your "letter to Grandmother" demonstrates the false and fraudulent personality of yours. You start by "dear grandmother" and then, in the first sentence you call her a cunt. Nice!

Your grandmother likely does not want to see YOU. YOU scare her with what you became, a loser Indian married to a much whiter but Indian boy. Indians are scary, man, really scary. That culture is still in the middle ages.

Posted by Anonymous Anonymous | February 12, 2007 at 9:02 AM  

I have some older family members who act equally unkind. I guess this just goes to show that with age does not necessarily come maturity, wisdom and kindness. So glad that you and your brother can recognize the ills of her ways and not repeat them yourself. I guess in the end we cannot control the actions of others, but can just learn from others (both positive and negative). I am sure that your brother, mother and you will shower your father with tons of love and support and hopefully compensation in someway for your grandmother's behavior. Take care.

Posted by Anonymous Pritilata | February 12, 2007 at 10:57 AM  

i could feel the rage through the computer screen. people can be real jerks.

i hope you and your family are doing well. you all are in my thoughts and prayers!

Posted by Anonymous Tootie | February 12, 2007 at 11:06 AM  

I'm sorry. Sickness/ death seems to bring out the worst in some. I wish I could give you a backwards hug. That's what my daughter does to make me feel better, and it really helps.

Posted by Anonymous It will pass... | February 12, 2007 at 11:20 AM  

is she afraid to see him as it's a reminder that her time is coming up? it's hard for parents to see their children suffer.

Posted by Anonymous Anonymous | February 12, 2007 at 12:07 PM  

Maybe she doesn't want to visit because she's sad to see her son so sick. She does sound horrible for beating your mom though. That is unbelievable.

Posted by Anonymous West Coast Mommy | February 12, 2007 at 2:18 PM  

Beat your Mom and other dils? Oh my God!
I'm so sorry.

Posted by Anonymous DesiMom | February 12, 2007 at 5:31 PM  

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I can't imagine the hurt that your dad must feel. And your mom as well, living with that sort of abuse.

Posted by Anonymous Mango Pickle | February 13, 2007 at 1:11 PM  

i gots a grandma like that, too but her problem is that she won't LEAVE my parent's home.

some people are just...wrong.
my prayers for your family, BC.

Posted by Anonymous kit and kumari | February 13, 2007 at 3:43 PM  

i gots a g-ma like that too, except her problem is that she won't leave my parents' home.

some people are just... wrong.

good luck with everything, BC. (and sorry if this a repeat.

Posted by Anonymous kit and kumari | February 13, 2007 at 3:46 PM  

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